Dear Bella: I am a 28-year-old young woman who knows what she wants in life. However, I have been single for quite some time now, because my last boyfriend hurt me to the extent where any woman would have gone crazy. I have since then healed and I am ready to love again.

But Bella, the situation is this. I like this guy so much. Bella, I will not say in love because love is a next level. But words can’t explain how I like this guy. The problem I have is that he is 21 years of age. I mean I know he is a young man, but it still has me thinking.

He is very mature, and Bella OMG the most real guy I have ever seen in my entire life! Bella, this guy is something else. A lot of women are always asking where are all the good men at an most of all ‘WHERE ARE ALL THE SINGLE GOOD MEN AT?'

This is one right there. I have asked so many of my girlfriends about him and got to know a lot about him. People would see him around most times by himself and look at him as just being quiet but his really not than his just humble and cool.

A lot of people know him and his plain out cool with everybody, but Bella the population of girls that wants him all over the place is CRAZY. I mean there are married women and women with their boyfriends trying to get with this guy, girls are literally fighting over this guy.

I believe that there are a lot of women who don't know about him and if they would only know they will RUSH him because his GREAT GUY but I can handle the girls. I am not for that at all but I can understand WHY they are doing it.

I first noticed all this was true when he was entering a restaurant and I was behind of him and he opened the door smiled and let me enter first, since then is always giving me good greetings and complements with a smile.

Some girls would just watch him and may seen him around but to them might just be another cute face boy ready to trample on their heart but not the knowledge that he has Bella, is  extraordinary so uplifting, so strong and positive never negative and so much more qualities, every lady's dream.

Some girls would really ask themselves a guy like that is single? His one of a kind Bella sometimes I say to myself is this guy from earth? His name is never in this and that and was told by many that he has never cheated on his past girlfriends.

Bella, he is just everything a woman would want in a man, it’s just the age difference that keeps hitting me. A little advice please!

Dear Miss,

In your case where there are two consenting adults I do not believe that the age difference should discourage you from pursuing a relationship with this young man. As long as you believe that he is mature enough and is ready to commit to a relationship there should be no fuss about his age.

Write to Bella at bvinews@gmail.com.

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